We’re snowed in today. We’ve gotten about 30 inches or MORE of snow
since this morning. It’s still falling. It will STILL be falling
tomorrow. The winds have been high….there’s drifts going up the side of
the house and the van. Our neighbor’s car is completely covered. We can
just BARELY see the posts from the garden fence sticking up out of the
snow.
My mom reminded me of a snow storm like this 8 years ago
on the same day. Well, it wasn’t QUITE this intense, but it was storm
and it happened on Valentine’s Day 8 years ago. I remember VERY well
what I was doing that day.
Eight years ago, my husband I
decided that we would take our last date night out before our first
child arrived. We wanted one last date as just the two of us before the
little one came. Valentine’s Day was a Sunday, so it was perfect since
he didn’t have to work that day. And our due date was February 23rd, so
we figured we’d have plenty of time to get out for that last date.
Well,
the day before Valentine’s Day, we knew something was happening. We
also knew that we wouldn’t be going out for that last date on
Valentine’s Day.
My water broke on the 13th and things held
off until the evening. The snow started falling during the day and it
got heavier as the night went on. We were living with my parents at the
time…..we had just moved up from PA to Vermont and they let us stay
with them for 13 months. (It was only supposed to be 4 months…..but you
know how that is.)
We waited for the midwife to show up as the
contractions got stronger. My mom thought for sure that she was going
to have to deliver our baby….and she had only been on the OTHER side of
birth….the giving end. Not the receiving end.
Our midwife
finally pulled into the driveway about 3 am. It took her about an hour
and a half to drive what should normally have taken only 35 minutes.
She had to come down off the mountains and through the back roads to
get to our house.
The candles in our room were lit and I was
anxious to have it all be over and to have a baby in my arms. I was
tired and falling asleep in between contractions. My mom and my husband
were my anchors, but I know my mom was praying that she didn‘t have to
deliver that baby on her own. My dad and my brothers took off
downstairs to play video games and watch movies. They didn’t want to be
near any part of the birthing process. I was okay with that. ;)
The
midwife’s assistant pulled in just 5 minutes before I gave birth. She
had gone off the road in a snow drift and she had also been pulled over
by the police for driving a bit too fast in dangerous weather
conditions.
At 3:43 am on Valentine’s day of 1999, our little
Zachariah Judah entered the world, in my old bedroom at my parents‘
house. He was the best Valentine’s gift I’ve ever been given. I was
more than happy to have him 9 days early, but I was especially happy
that he was a Valentine’s baby. I was glad to forfeit the dinner date
and hold our first child in our arms on Valentine’s Day. What a special
and precious gift.
My dad cooked a very early breakfast for
all of us that morning. The midwives were hungry and I was starving. He
went into town later in the day and brought home a beautiful card and a
single rose for me.
Ever since that Valentine's day, I've sent my midwife a handmade Valentine's card with an updated picture of Zach and a thank you for being there to help bring my Zachy-boy into our world.
Eight years later and we’re in the middle of
a snowstorm again. But there’s no labor pains. Just a happy and healthy
eight year old with a brilliant mind. And he’s all ours. It’s kinda
funny how we haven’t really celebrated Valentine’s day for the last 8
years. Once Zach was born, it was his day. All his. Davy and I don’t
give cards to each other on this day. We celebrate it all as Zach’s
day. The way we look at it, Valentine’s Day just happens to fall on HIS
day. :)